“The Sustainable Attraction {1}: What Attracts the Right Man and Gets Him to Commit”

Hello, Single Ladies!

Many years ago, I tried to comprehend what a good man looks for in a woman; I realized that the answer varies significantly from person to person. Each man has their unique preferences. 

However, men carefully consider two categories of qualities when seeking a life partner.

1. Physical Qualities {Attracts a man at first sight}
2. Internal Qualities {Keeps a man}

Physical Qualities

This point is fascinating because it often plays a significant role in sparking initial interest, though what constitutes “attractive” can be pretty diverse. As we know men are visually driven, but there are sustainable appeal factors that keep the right man committed to THE ONE? 

Since physical qualities like beauty, adorable body shape, smooth sun-glass skin, captivating smile, height, and more are not enough to keep a man, what does?

Let’s talk about what attracts, keeps, and gets the right man to commit.

Internal Qualities  

It is who you are, your identity, values, character, intelligence, behavior, personality, beliefs, and inner beauty that radiates from within and extends to how you treat yourself and the people around you; it is your AURA.

These internal qualities attract the right man seeking a good woman to marry.

WHAT AURA DO YOU EXUDE? 

This is a fundamental question to reflect on.

Knowing who you are guides your decisions, reactions, beliefs, and character; the outcome of these factors reflects in your personality and births your core values, interests, boundaries, and aura.

Your aura reflects who you are on the inside, the real you, your identity, your personality, and your fragrance. What do you see when you look in the mirror? What do people/friends see when they look at you? What can they say about you? How do you treat yourself and people? What is your behavior towards people, especially strangers? What is your reaction towards a man trying to woo you for the first time? Do you politely respond, or do you lash out at him? This blog is not to pick on you sis, just mentioning the things that could be standing as an obstacle. However, if you resonate with this, I suggest you kindly do something about it. I am looking out for you.

It’s essential to nurture your internal qualities; do it for you.

Our character is that key in our possession that determines how many doors we open or shut.

Your aura is the energy and glow illuminating from within you that sets you apart from others. It reveals to people around you how much you value and perceive yourself so much that they naturally love and perceive you the same way.

Nurturing your internal qualities as much as you nurture your physical qualities is the path to lasting and meaningful connections.

Live your authentic life.